25th March 2022
However, it would be prudent to make sure one of us was was always with her or at least within eyesight of her at all times.
What to wear, what to wear! Oh, Mike took care of that. How thoughtful! A nice new dress? Nope. Our my birthday suit will suffice! Oh, and another funny little factoid – John and Donna thought ahead and scheduled this so that Kayla would not be on her period. How thoughtful! Ha! Just one of the logistics of having a nubile sub at your service. Party in two weeks.
We never sought out to say, “We are open to having sex with John and Donna,” or, “Let's see if Kayla wants to join us
P.S. Got my first Thursday maintenance caning. I'd say, “Oh, how I despise the cane,” but the fact is, it is simply my least favorite spanking implement.
A reader, Curious Cat, commented on my last post and shared his observations about what I have shared and he posed some interesting questions. I thought the answers deserved their own post.
Warning – no spanking stories here. Just a bit of a rant and ramble about this, that, and the other. Okay, more than a bit. It's more like an epic ramble on my part. I thought of omitting it, but it felt so good to get it out of my system, so you're stuck with a choice of reading it or not. If you stick with reading through it, you will find that I eventually address his questions!
MONOLOGUE First I'll ruminate on some things before I directly answer the questions he posed. I can imagine how my life is perceived by those reading my blog. Surely my days are consumed with the swapfinder pÅ™ihlÃ¡Å¡enÃ zpÅ¯soby things I post about? Sorry, truth is these posts are simply glimpses into a particular moment. Much of my day is mundane and ordinary. The ordinary isn't the focus of my blog. My focus is on how Domestic Discipline shapes my life. Here's something “ordinary” – I like to cook and try new recipes – in fact, I follow several cooking/baking oriented blogs (whose author's probably gasp when they click on a comment I made and arrive at my blog!). I don't blog about my kitchen experiments or great recipe find. Not because those things aren't interesting to me – it just isn't the purpose of my blog.
With that said, yes, even the ordinary parts of my day are susceptible to an injection of something erotic or scintillating. Such is the byproduct of the lifestyle Mike and I have chosen. You can certainly have a DD lifestyle sans the eroticism, but that isn't us.
I have written about how the pace of the last eight months has surprised me. Our first year of DD was confined to sexual exploration between just Mike and I. Even after nearly 25 years of marriage, DD opened us up to more exploration between the two of us than I thought possible. That exploration started taking a new path about the time I started blogging. First John and Donna, then Kayla.
Mike agreed and added that everyone who is coming is coming with a partner, so if they need a sexual release, they should be with a partner willing to help with that
I mentioned before that I believe this happened because we were open to such things. ” Instead, we agreed that our relationship was full of love and understanding and we both aspired to help the other experience their dreams, hopes, and desires. That openness positioned us to be accepting of certain things. Once you are open to such things, those things are likely to occur. Some may call it karma or apply something mystical or spiritual to it. I simply look at it as awareness. It's like when you buy a new car and then suddenly see that same make and model everywhere. They've always been there, but your mind is now tuned in to recognize them. It's not magic, it is simply awareness.